Manifesting Love: A Dating Coach's Journey Using the Law of Attraction
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Chapter 1: Understanding the Law of Attraction
Can you truly attract a specific person into your life? Let's explore this intriguing concept. The Law of Attraction (LOA) suggests that your thoughts shape your reality, placing you entirely in charge of your circumstances. Your beliefs and mindset are crucial in this process.
According to the LOA, if you perceive yourself negatively, you'll draw situations that reinforce this belief, leading to a cycle of self-sabotage. You'll encounter people who validate your low self-esteem, unintentionally undermine your chances in job interviews, and disregard helpful advice, all contributing to the negative self-image you hold.
Moreover, some advocates of the LOA argue that your thoughts can act like a magnet, pulling desired situations toward you. For example, if you firmly believe that you will earn £100,000 next month, the universe might align to make that happen in unexpected ways.
Interestingly, many highly successful individuals, including Oprah Winfrey, Will Smith, and Jim Carrey, are strong supporters of the LOA.
Here’s a video showcasing how Conor McGregor harnessed the LOA to achieve his incredible success:
Chapter 2: Personal Experiences with the LOA
I have personally experimented with the LOA and have had remarkable success.
Manifesting a Vacation Without Funds
Back in 2008, inspired by The Secret, I decided to manifest a vacation. Despite having no funds, I consistently affirmed that I would go on holiday. Miraculously, my father offered to take me and my brother to Ayia Napa, making it one of the best vacations ever.
Manifesting Money for a Course
In 2010, I yearned to attend the Landmark Forum but lacked the £365 fee. With only a month to gather the funds, I again turned to the LOA, repeating that the money would come. On the deadline, a cheque arrived from the government for precisely £365—money I had overpaid in taxes the previous year.
Despite these experiences, I admit to not fully utilizing the LOA in my daily life, often falling into self-sabotage. However, I am determined to change that.
Chapter 3: My Goal to Manifest the Mother of My Children
I’m embarking on a journey to manifest my ideal partner, an Instagram model named Rachel Fit, who embodies the qualities I desire. As a dating coach, you might wonder why I need the universe’s assistance in finding love.
The truth is, there's a significant difference between attracting women and finding the right one for a deeper connection. I seek a soulmate with specific attributes that align with my vision.
Here’s another insightful video by Leeor Alexandra, detailing her journey of manifestation:
Manifestation Techniques I Will Use
Leeor shares her approach to manifesting her fiancé, which includes:
- Visualizing the relationship during key moments.
- Acting as if the relationship already exists.
- Imagining daily routines together.
- Celebrating love openly.
- Enjoying life and building self-trust.
- Maintaining faith in the process.
I plan to adopt these strategies as I pursue my dream partner by the end of this year. Here’s a detailed description of the qualities I’m looking for:
- Black with caramel skin
- Aged 25-32
- Highly intelligent and open-minded
- Enjoys traveling and family-oriented
- Deeply connected with personal development
While this list feels daunting, I remind myself that clarity is essential in the manifestation process. Embracing specificity can aid in attracting the right person.
Becoming the Ideal Partner
It's essential to note that while I pursue my dream partner, I must also work on becoming the best version of myself. My ideal partner has her own criteria, and self-improvement is key.
Throughout the rest of the year, I will commit to these daily practices to see if I can manifest this special woman into my life.
To the future mother of my children, I eagerly await our meeting.
I have a head for business and a bod for sin,
Excelsior,
Ciaran
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