Section 1.1: The Illusion of Benefit

Alex Becker, whose work I've previously highlighted in my article titled "One Underrated and Inspiring Book to Read If You Absolutely Hate Your Job," has significantly influenced my approach to both business and life through his book, The 10 Pillars of Wealth. He also runs a YouTube channel focused on enhancing productivity and achieving business success.

In a recent video, Becker discussed the myriad advantages of quitting alcohol, as well as the deceptive practices it employs to keep individuals tethered. He articulated a poignant truth:

"You derive no real benefits from drinking. The issues you believe you’re alleviating are actually problems that alcohol creates. Every perceived advantage is merely a facade, and the enjoyment you seek is attainable in much higher forms without alcohol."

Becker argues that alcohol restricts you to a lower, superficial version of enjoyment, as it becomes your coping mechanism. True fulfillment is abundant, yet alcohol misleads you into believing that it's essential for a social life and enjoyment.

He asserts, "Fun exists all around you, but alcohol holds you back, convincing you that you cannot have fun or a social life without it." This deceptive cycle leads to regret and suffering, making you mistake your captor for your savior.

Section 1.2: The Journey to Liberation

Reflecting on my own journey, I recall how my drinking habits evolved throughout university. What began as weekend fun slowly morphed into a reliance on alcohol to escape feelings of boredom and depression. At that point, I realized I was trapped in a psychological cage. Life lost its vibrancy, and alcohol became the only means to inject color back into my existence.

As Becker describes, alcohol transformed into my jailer, convincing me that it was my ally. However, I eventually recognized that I didn’t need alcohol to experience joy, connect with others, or enjoy life’s activities.

In 2019, I embarked on a long-term alcohol-free period. After three weeks, as I overcame the psychological withdrawal, I attended a wedding. Unlike before, I found enjoyment in the experience without needing alcohol. I engaged in conversations, savored delicious food, and even danced with my children—all while sober. The best part? I was able to drive my family home safely afterward.

As you venture out of the mental cage, consider committing to stay free a little longer. Eventually, you'll discover an opening that leads to a more fulfilling life. While the initial steps may be challenging, distancing yourself from alcohol will make it increasingly difficult for it to pull you back in.