Navigating Expectations: What You Ordered vs. What You Received
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Chapter 1: The Discrepancy Between Anticipation and Reality
Last month, my sister made an online purchase of a dress that looked stunning in the photos, yet when it arrived, she was met with disappointment. This scenario resonates with many of us who have ventured into writing on Medium. Initially, the process seemed simple and promising, but the reality often unfolds differently than we hoped.
From Aspirations to Acceptance
I had envisioned my success on Medium unfolding within six months, imagining my name among the top writers and my finances flourishing. However, that time passed, and I found myself nowhere near my goals, ultimately leading to my departure from the platform.
What changed? The dissonance between my expectations and reality became too stark to ignore. After some reflection, I chose to return, equipped with a new perspective.
Section 1.1: The Value of Research
When you invest time in research, you can sidestep many pitfalls. Upon my return to Medium, I delved deeper than the enticing "get-rich-quick" narratives. I unearthed authentic stories from writers who had navigated their own challenges on the platform.
Inspired by their journeys, I decided to focus on the craft itself. Regardless of my financial gains, I promised to embrace the joy of writing and the connections I would forge with fellow writers. I also committed to three essential truths:
- Growth varies among writers, with everyone progressing at their own pace.
- Some writers have more experience than I do, making comparisons futile.
- There will always be individuals with greater talent.
This realization was hard to digest. On Medium, you encounter writers who may outshine you in skill and determination.
Subsection 1.1.1: A Reminder of Patience
A few days ago, I came across a tweet that resonated deeply with me: "I don't possess exceptional talent, nor am I the hardest worker. What I do have, however, is a rare quality: patience." This sentiment reflects the reality for many of us.
We may not always be the most talented or industrious, but we can choose to be patient with ourselves and our journeys.
Section 1.2: Embracing Realism
Ultimately, your success on Medium hinges on how grounded your expectations are. While initial hopes may have led to disappointment, it's essential to recognize that closed doors aren't final. Seek out new opportunities or create them by honing your writing skills. Identify your strengths and let them amplify your unique voice.
Always cherish the joy of your writing journey, no matter how gradual progress may seem. Stay true to yourself; keep writing.
Chapter 2: The Reality of Online Experiences
In this video titled "Ordering What the Person in Front of Us Orders," we explore the expectations and surprises that come with online orders, mirroring our writing experiences.
The second video, "YIKES UOOZEE What I Ordered vs What I Got [DO NOT BUY FROM HERE]," highlights the discrepancies between our expectations and the reality of online purchases, a theme that resonates with many writers' journeys.
©️Georgina Odafe